Our2Souls is for people seeking a lasting relationship—and a more thoughtful way to find one.
We bring together relationship readiness, practical learning, and a beta matching app designed around meaningful connections.
Finding love shouldn’t feel like a second job. Endless swiping, repeated disappointment, and the anticipation of another match or message can make dating difficult to put down—and emotionally exhausting.
Dating fatigue is real.
78%
reported dating-app burnout at least sometimes.1
Nearly 90%
had felt the need to take a break from online dating.2
Findings from two separate surveys, each involving 1,000 U.S. dating-app users.
Research also links dating-app use with anxiety, depression, and emotional distress. These findings do not establish that apps cause those conditions, but they reinforce the importance of taking people’s experience and wellbeing seriously.
Explore potential matches through relationship styles.
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Practise communication, boundaries and intimacy.
More intention at every stage of your relationship journey.
An illustration of approaches—not a prediction of individual outcomes.
THE TIME BEHIND THE SWIPES ON CURRENT DATING APP CHOICES
A connection can take more than a swipe.
Shane Co.’s survey put numbers to the search for a partner based on choices before O2S came along.
Current Dating app choices are designed for engagement, not connection
↔3,960estimated swipes
before finding a partner
8 months + 11 daysaverage time searching
before meeting their partner
◴~26 hourson dating apps each month
during the search
Our2Souls is different
Designed for a more efficient search. More time for connection.
Our2Souls is designed to show you potential partners who meet your matching criteria, rather than an endless feed of profiles. The goal: less time browsing and more time exploring meaningful connections.
You’ve made a connection. Give the next conversation some thought.
Explore what you both want, your readiness, and the patterns you want to change.
Source: Shane Co., “How Many Swipes Does It Take to Find a Significant Other?” (February 2023). Survey of over 1,000 Americans who met their current partner on dating apps, conducted in December 2022. Swipe totals were calculated from self-reported usage. Monthly hours are our estimate: approximately 6 hours per week × 52 weeks ÷ 12 months. These estimates describe that sample, not all daters or measured Our2Souls outcomes. Original Our2Souls visualization of the reported figures.
THE OUR2SOULS APP
A more intentional approach to meeting someone.
Our matching algorithm was born from 23 scientific studies and is ready to help you explore potential partners beyond photos and swiping, with relationship styles at the heart of the experience.
Our2Souls is designed to show you potential partners who meet our matching criteria, rather than an endless feed of profiles. Sometimes that may mean waiting longer for an introduction. Our goal is to give you fewer reasons to keep checking and more room to live your life while exploring meaningful connections.
YOUR READINESS JOURNEY
Prepare for the relationship you want.
You can begin with the website or beta app. Our website helps you explore your own readiness—and consider whether someone you’ve already met is ready for a long-term relationship too.
With readiness assessments, reflection tools, the 28-video Relationship Readiness program, and HeartWise Academy, you can build skills in communication, boundaries, intimacy, and navigating conflict.
Our mission: help you spend less time searching and more time building a relationship that matters.
