Start with your readiness.
Take the free mini readiness quiz for a personal snapshot. Upgrade to explore your full results and areas for growth.

✦ FOR THE PERSON YOU’VE ALREADY MET — GIVE IT A CHANCE TO LAST.
Before your next date, get clearer about what you need, the patterns you want to change, and the conversations worth having.
Invite them to explore their relationship readiness too—each of you chooses what to share.
FROM A FIRST CONNECTION TO A REAL CONVERSATIONYour next date starts here.
YOUR FIRST STEP - Are You Ready for a Long Term Relationship?
Start with a free personal snapshot. Explore the full toolkit for US$4.99/year.
Our2Souls helps adults prepare for, find and build lasting romantic relationships through relationship-readiness tools, practical learning and a free beta matchmaking app.
How the free app and website membership work →Invite someone you’ve met on another dating app—or in real life—to take the Relationship Readiness Quiz. Explore what you each want from a lasting relationship, with each person choosing what results to share.
Invite someone to take the quiz →FROM “WE MATCHED” TO “LET’S UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER”
No new pool of profiles to browse.
Bring the person you’re curious about.
Take the free mini readiness quiz for a personal snapshot. Upgrade to explore your full results and areas for growth.
Members can invite someone they’ve met to take the full quiz. Your guest decides whether to share their results with you.
See how an invitation works ↗Use your personalized workbook to explore your readiness, find conversation starters, and think about what matters before you meet.
Preview your dating toolkit ↗MAKE THE BENEFIT REAL
The membership connects your full results, guest invitations, and a workbook tailored to your pairing.
ILLUSTRATIVE WORKBOOK PAGE · NOT PERSONAL RESULTS
A conversation starter to explore before your next date.
“What helps you feel comfortable enough to be yourself with someone new?”
What would you like them to understand about you?
Choose a place where you can both feel comfortable talking.
Example layout and prompt. Your membership workbook will use your pairing’s guidance.
YOUR FIRST STEP IS FREE
Begin with yourself. Decide whether the full toolkit is right for you.
THE FOUNDING MEMBERSHIP
Help build a more thoughtful relationship community. Founding membership is open to the first 2,000 paid members in each city.
Also explore our free beta app: try matchmaking and help shape what comes next. Separate from the subscription; no paid website membership required. Get the free beta app →
YOUR DATING TOOLKIT
US$4.99/year while continuously renewed. Cancellation ends this rate; rejoining uses current pricing.
Paid enrollment is currently closed.
INCLUDED WITH YOUR OUR2SOULS MEMBERSHIP
HeartWise Academy is the learning part of Our2Souls. Build on your readiness insights with courses, conversations, and practical relationship tools.
Explore HeartWise learning →HEARTWISE · THE OUR2SOULS LEARNING ACADEMY
Also included: HeartWise Academy.
Learn before a date—and keep growing after it.
Explore a more conscious way to listen, learn, and connect.
Learn with Linda and Charlie Bloom and build skills for difficult moments.
Explore 42 episodes with Dr. Jim and Ruth Sharon and their guests.
3 featured resource previews
Full resources, saved items, and progress are available inside your paid member account.
GROW YOUR READINESS
Six modules to help you understand yourself, communicate, navigate conflict, set boundaries, and build intimacy.
Explore the Readiness program ↗MORE PERSPECTIVES. MORE WAYS TO GROW.
Go deeper into attraction, codependency, and intuition in love. Explore focused quizzes, result explanations, and short videos as part of your learning journey.
Explore expert quizzes →A LITTLE PRACTICE GOES A LONG WAY
Set a goal that fits your life. Save what resonates. Pick up where you left off.
This week’s goal: make time to listen.
WHY OUR2SOULS EXISTS
Our2Souls is for people seeking a lasting relationship—and a more thoughtful way to find one.
We bring together relationship readiness, practical learning, and a beta matching app designed around meaningful connections.
Finding love shouldn’t feel like a second job. Endless swiping, repeated disappointment, and the anticipation of another match or message can make dating difficult to put down—and emotionally exhausting.
reported dating-app burnout at least sometimes.1
had felt the need to take a break from online dating.2
Findings from two separate surveys, each involving 1,000 U.S. dating-app users.
Research also links dating-app use with anxiety, depression, and emotional distress. These findings do not establish that apps cause those conditions, but they reinforce the importance of taking people’s experience and wellbeing seriously.
Consumer surveys describe respondents’ experiences; they are not clinical diagnoses or evidence of Our2Souls outcomes.
THE OUR2SOULS APPROACH
Prepare. Connect. Keep growing.

PREPARE
Explore your readiness, needs and patterns.
CONNECT
Explore potential matches through relationship styles.
GROW
Practise communication, boundaries and intimacy.
More intention at every stage of your relationship journey.
An illustration of approaches—not a prediction of individual outcomes.
THE TIME BEHIND THE SWIPES ON CURRENT DATING APP CHOICES
Shane Co.’s survey put numbers to the search for a partner based on choices before O2S came along.
Current Dating app choices are designed for engagement, not connection
before finding a partner
before meeting their partner
during the search
Our2Souls is designed to show you potential partners who meet your matching criteria, rather than an endless feed of profiles. The goal: less time browsing and more time exploring meaningful connections.
You’ve made a connection. Give the next conversation some thought.Explore what you both want, your readiness, and the patterns you want to change.
Take the free readiness quiz →Source: Shane Co., “How Many Swipes Does It Take to Find a Significant Other?” (February 2023). Survey of over 1,000 Americans who met their current partner on dating apps, conducted in December 2022. Swipe totals were calculated from self-reported usage. Monthly hours are our estimate: approximately 6 hours per week × 52 weeks ÷ 12 months. These estimates describe that sample, not all daters or measured Our2Souls outcomes. Original Our2Souls visualization of the reported figures.
Our matching algorithm was born from 23 scientific studies and is ready to help you explore potential partners beyond photos and swiping, with relationship styles at the heart of the experience.
Our2Souls is designed to show you potential partners who meet our matching criteria, rather than an endless feed of profiles. Sometimes that may mean waiting longer for an introduction. Our goal is to give you fewer reasons to keep checking and more room to live your life while exploring meaningful connections.
You can begin with the website or beta app. Our website helps you explore your own readiness—and consider whether someone you’ve already met is ready for a long-term relationship too.
With readiness assessments, reflection tools, the 28-video Relationship Readiness program, and HeartWise Academy, you can build skills in communication, boundaries, intimacy, and navigating conflict.
Our mission: help you spend less time searching and more time building a relationship that matters.
Vancouver soft launch: February 14, 2027.THE BETA TODAY · THE AI INTERFACE NEXT
Already met someone? Our2Souls helps you explore that connection. Still looking? The beta brings the website’s tools to a device-focused experience, plus matchmaking that becomes more useful as more people join. Founding members can help shape what comes next through feedback. The website helps you and someone you already know explore readiness for a long-term relationship.
Understand your relationship patterns, what matters to you, and the kind of partnership you want to build.
Our matching algorithm was born from 23 scientific studies and is ready to help you explore potential partners beyond photos and swiping, with relationship styles at the heart of the experience.
Build relationship skills with HeartWise learning, reflection, and practical tools as your connection develops.
BE PART OF WHAT’S NEXT
Join the full AI version waitlist. The planned Vancouver launch is February 14, 2027, with a goal of 2,000+ members and an AI interface. The beta is already available to explore.
Vancouver soft launch
February 14, 2027
The next cities will be prioritized by paid subscriptions. The bars below count current paid members only. Free waitlist signups express interest and are not added to these totals.
A FEW THINGS YOU MIGHT BE WONDERING
Yes—that’s the idea. Our2Souls is designed to help you explore a connection you’ve already made, whether through a dating app, friends, work, or everyday life. You don’t need Our2Souls to introduce you first.
No. A guest chooses whether to share their results. An invitation is an opportunity to explore together, not permission to view private answers.
Take the free readiness reflection. Members can use the full quiz, workbook and guest invitations. Paid enrollment is currently closed. Vancouver’s planned app soft launch is February 14, 2027.
Both. Begin with self-understanding, prepare for a new relationship, or build skills within an existing one.
The full readiness quiz and results, guest invitations with optional results sharing, the readiness workbook, the 28-video Relationship Readiness program, and HeartWise Academy membership. Founding membership is US$4.99/year while continuously renewed, for the first 2,000 paid members per city. Cancellation ends the founding rate; rejoining uses current pricing. Current and future standard features are included. Premium AI features will have a founding-member discount, with details announced once pricing is finalised.
Vancouver’s soft launch is February 14, 2027. The leading cities by paid subscriptions will follow. Dates for other cities have not yet been announced.
No. Our2Souls is being developed to support more thoughtful introductions and relationship learning. Availability depends on participants, and compatibility and relationship outcomes cannot be guaranteed.