PAID ENROLLMENT CURRENTLY CLOSED Explore Our2Souls and take the free readiness quiz

✦ FOR THE PERSON YOU’VE ALREADY MET — GIVE IT A CHANCE TO LAST.

Met someone?
Want this time
to be different?

Before your next date, get clearer about what you need, the patterns you want to change, and the conversations worth having.

Invite them to explore their relationship readiness too—each of you chooses what to share.

A couple sharing a close, affectionate momentFROM A FIRST CONNECTION TO A REAL CONVERSATION
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Less guesswork.
More to talk about.

Your next date starts here.

UNDERSTAND · CONNECT · GROW

YOUR FIRST STEP - Are You Ready for a Long Term Relationship?

Your Connection Journey →See how it works ↓

Start with a free personal snapshot. Explore the full toolkit for US$4.99/year.

Our2Souls helps adults prepare for, find and build lasting romantic relationships through relationship-readiness tools, practical learning and a free beta matchmaking app.

How the free app and website membership work →

YOUR NEXT STEP - Is Your Match Ready for a Long Term Relationship?

Matched somewhere else? Discover more together.

Invite someone you’ve met on another dating app—or in real life—to take the Relationship Readiness Quiz. Explore what you each want from a lasting relationship, with each person choosing what results to share.

Invite someone to take the quiz →
Keep the connection you’ve made.Bring Our2Souls into your next conversation.See an example ↗

FROM “WE MATCHED” TO “LET’S UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER”

A better next step.
With someone you already know.

No new pool of profiles to browse.
Bring the person you’re curious about.

01 / KNOW YOURSELF
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Start with your readiness.

Take the free mini readiness quiz for a personal snapshot. Upgrade to explore your full results and areas for growth.

02 / INVITE SOMEONE
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Make it a conversation.

Members can invite someone they’ve met to take the full quiz. Your guest decides whether to share their results with you.

See how an invitation works ↗
03 / PREPARE FOR YOUR DATE
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Go beyond small talk.

Use your personalized workbook to explore your readiness, find conversation starters, and think about what matters before you meet.

Preview your dating toolkit ↗

MAKE THE BENEFIT REAL

A little insight.
A more thoughtful date.

The membership connects your full results, guest invitations, and a workbook tailored to your pairing.

  1. Send a personal invitation.Invite someone you’re interested in—online or offline.
  2. Let them choose what to share.Their results are shared with you only if they choose.
  3. Explore your pairing together.Use the workbook to reflect and prepare, without treating a quiz as a verdict.

ILLUSTRATIVE WORKBOOK PAGE · NOT PERSONAL RESULTS

OUR2SOULSYOUR NEXT CONVERSATION / 01

Get curious
about each other.

A conversation starter to explore before your next date.

“What helps you feel comfortable enough to be yourself with someone new?”
REFLECT

What would you like them to understand about you?

PLAN

Choose a place where you can both feel comfortable talking.

Example layout and prompt. Your membership workbook will use your pairing’s guidance.

YOUR FIRST STEP IS FREE

Get your relationship-readiness snapshot.

Begin with yourself. Decide whether the full toolkit is right for you.

THE FOUNDING MEMBERSHIP

Bring more understanding
to your next date.

Help build a more thoughtful relationship community. Founding membership is open to the first 2,000 paid members in each city.

  • Full Relationship Readiness Quiz and results
  • 28-video Relationship Readiness program
  • Your Connection Journey and future standard membership features
  • Your personalized dating-preparation workbook
  • HeartWise Academy membership

Also explore our free beta app: try matchmaking and help shape what comes next. Separate from the subscription; no paid website membership required. Get the free beta app →

YOUR DATING TOOLKIT

US$4.99/ year
Help build the community. Enjoy the founding rate.

Join for US$4.99/year and access the readiness toolkit and HeartWise Academy. Your founding rate stays with you while you renew continuously.

US$4.99/year while continuously renewed. Cancellation ends this rate; rejoining uses current pricing.

Paid enrollment is currently closed.
No payment will be taken.
HeartWise Relationship Academy

INCLUDED WITH YOUR OUR2SOULS MEMBERSHIP

From understanding to everyday skills.

HeartWise Academy is the learning part of Our2Souls. Build on your readiness insights with courses, conversations, and practical relationship tools.

Explore HeartWise learning →

HEARTWISE · THE OUR2SOULS LEARNING ACADEMY

Your next chapter.
With support along the way.

Also included: HeartWise Academy.
Learn before a date—and keep growing after it.

LISTEN“MAKE ROOM TO HEAR EACH OTHER.

COURSE · COMMUNICATION

LISTEN for a Living

Explore a more conscious way to listen, learn, and connect.

Reconnect.↔A DIFFERENCE CAN BEGIN A CONVERSATION.

COURSE · NAVIGATING CONFLICT

From Conflict to Connection

Learn with Linda and Charlie Bloom and build skills for difficult moments.

A little
more love.
◉GIVE YOUR LOVE LIFE SOME LOVE

PODCAST · GROWING TOGETHER

Conversations worth having

Explore 42 episodes with Dr. Jim and Ruth Sharon and their guests.

3 featured resource previews

Full resources, saved items, and progress are available inside your paid member account.

GROW YOUR READINESS

28 videos.
One thoughtful journey.

Six modules to help you understand yourself, communicate, navigate conflict, set boundaries, and build intimacy.

Explore the Readiness program ↗

MORE PERSPECTIVES. MORE WAYS TO GROW.

Explore a question.
Discover an expert’s approach.

Go deeper into attraction, codependency, and intuition in love. Explore focused quizzes, result explanations, and short videos as part of your learning journey.

Explore expert quizzes →

A LITTLE PRACTICE GOES A LONG WAY

Keep growing.
One small step at a time.

Set a goal that fits your life. Save what resonates. Pick up where you left off.

  • Your resources, saved in your account
  • Gentle weekly goals and progress milestones
  • A recommended next step, whenever you’re ready
MY LEARNINGILLUSTRATIVE PREVIEW

A little closer, every day.

This week’s goal: make time to listen.

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YOUR NEXT SMALL STEP

Listen with curiosity.

Ask a question. Give the answer your full attention.

WHY OUR2SOULS EXISTS

More connection.
Less time scrolling.

Our2Souls is for people seeking a lasting relationship—and a more thoughtful way to find one.

We bring together relationship readiness, practical learning, and a beta matching app designed around meaningful connections.

Finding love shouldn’t feel like a second job. Endless swiping, repeated disappointment, and the anticipation of another match or message can make dating difficult to put down—and emotionally exhausting.

Dating fatigue is real.

78%

reported dating-app burnout at least sometimes.1

Nearly 90%

had felt the need to take a break from online dating.2

Findings from two separate surveys, each involving 1,000 U.S. dating-app users.

Research also links dating-app use with anxiety, depression, and emotional distress. These findings do not establish that apps cause those conditions, but they reinforce the importance of taking people’s experience and wellbeing seriously.

Read the research
  1. Forbes Health / OnePoll: dating-app burnout survey — 78% reported burnout sometimes, often, or always.
  2. Healthy Framework: online dating fatigue survey — 89.8% had felt the need to take a break; this is distinct from its burnout measure.
  3. Problematic Online Dating: systematic review — research on compulsive use and psychological associations.

Consumer surveys describe respondents’ experiences; they are not clinical diagnoses or evidence of Our2Souls outcomes.

THE OUR2SOULS APPROACH

A different path
to connection

Prepare. Connect. Keep growing.

Our2Souls
  1. 01

    PREPARE

    Know yourself

    Explore your readiness, needs and patterns.

  2. 02

    CONNECT

    Look deeper

    Explore potential matches through relationship styles.

  3. 03

    GROW

    Build together

    Practise communication, boundaries and intimacy.

More intention at every stage of your relationship journey.

An illustration of approaches—not a prediction of individual outcomes.

THE TIME BEHIND THE SWIPES ON CURRENT DATING APP CHOICES

A connection can take more than a swipe.

Shane Co.’s survey put numbers to the search for a partner based on choices before O2S came along.

Current Dating app choices are designed for engagement, not connection

3,960estimated swipes

before finding a partner

8 months + 11 daysaverage time searching

before meeting their partner

~26 hourson dating apps each month

during the search

Our2Souls is different

Designed for a more efficient search. More time for connection.

Our2Souls is designed to show you potential partners who meet your matching criteria, rather than an endless feed of profiles. The goal: less time browsing and more time exploring meaningful connections.

You’ve made a connection. Give the next conversation some thought.

Explore what you both want, your readiness, and the patterns you want to change.

Take the free readiness quiz →

Source: Shane Co., “How Many Swipes Does It Take to Find a Significant Other?” (February 2023). Survey of over 1,000 Americans who met their current partner on dating apps, conducted in December 2022. Swipe totals were calculated from self-reported usage. Monthly hours are our estimate: approximately 6 hours per week × 52 weeks ÷ 12 months. These estimates describe that sample, not all daters or measured Our2Souls outcomes. Original Our2Souls visualization of the reported figures.

THE OUR2SOULS APP

A more intentional approach to meeting someone.

Our matching algorithm was born from 23 scientific studies and is ready to help you explore potential partners beyond photos and swiping, with relationship styles at the heart of the experience.

Our2Souls is designed to show you potential partners who meet our matching criteria, rather than an endless feed of profiles. Sometimes that may mean waiting longer for an introduction. Our goal is to give you fewer reasons to keep checking and more room to live your life while exploring meaningful connections.

YOUR READINESS JOURNEY

Prepare for the relationship you want.

You can begin with the website or beta app. Our website helps you explore your own readiness—and consider whether someone you’ve already met is ready for a long-term relationship too.

With readiness assessments, reflection tools, the 28-video Relationship Readiness program, and HeartWise Academy, you can build skills in communication, boundaries, intimacy, and navigating conflict.

Our mission: help you spend less time searching and more time building a relationship that matters.

Vancouver soft launch: February 14, 2027.

THE BETA TODAY · THE AI INTERFACE NEXT

Your next meaningful connection
could start here.

BETA AVAILABLE

Already met someone? Our2Souls helps you explore that connection. Still looking? The beta brings the website’s tools to a device-focused experience, plus matchmaking that becomes more useful as more people join. Founding members can help shape what comes next through feedback. The website helps you and someone you already know explore readiness for a long-term relationship.

Prepare for connection.

Understand your relationship patterns, what matters to you, and the kind of partnership you want to build.

Discover thoughtful connections.

Our matching algorithm was born from 23 scientific studies and is ready to help you explore potential partners beyond photos and swiping, with relationship styles at the heart of the experience.

Keep growing together.

Build relationship skills with HeartWise learning, reflection, and practical tools as your connection develops.

BE PART OF WHAT’S NEXT

Help bring Our2Souls
to your city.

Join the full AI version waitlist. The planned Vancouver launch is February 14, 2027, with a goal of 2,000+ members and an AI interface. The beta is already available to explore.

Vancouver soft launch
February 14, 2027

We save your name, email and city for the app waitlist. Confirm your email to join. Company updates and brief progress newsletters are optional. Unsubscribe at any time.

Which cities follow Vancouver?

The next cities will be prioritized by paid subscriptions. The bars below count current paid members only. Free waitlist signups express interest and are not added to these totals.

Already in a relationship?Grow together with HeartWise ↗

A FEW THINGS YOU MIGHT BE WONDERING

Good questions. Clear answers.

Can I use this with someone I met on another dating app?

Yes—that’s the idea. Our2Souls is designed to help you explore a connection you’ve already made, whether through a dating app, friends, work, or everyday life. You don’t need Our2Souls to introduce you first.

Do they have to share their results with me?

No. A guest chooses whether to share their results. An invitation is an opportunity to explore together, not permission to view private answers.

Are the quiz tools available now?

Take the free readiness reflection. Members can use the full quiz, workbook and guest invitations. Paid enrollment is currently closed. Vancouver’s planned app soft launch is February 14, 2027.

Is Our2Souls for singles or couples?

Both. Begin with self-understanding, prepare for a new relationship, or build skills within an existing one.

What does my annual membership include?

The full readiness quiz and results, guest invitations with optional results sharing, the readiness workbook, the 28-video Relationship Readiness program, and HeartWise Academy membership. Founding membership is US$4.99/year while continuously renewed, for the first 2,000 paid members per city. Cancellation ends the founding rate; rejoining uses current pricing. Current and future standard features are included. Premium AI features will have a founding-member discount, with details announced once pricing is finalised.

When will Our2Souls launch in my city?

Vancouver’s soft launch is February 14, 2027. The leading cities by paid subscriptions will follow. Dates for other cities have not yet been announced.

Is an introduction or relationship outcome guaranteed?

No. Our2Souls is being developed to support more thoughtful introductions and relationship learning. Availability depends on participants, and compatibility and relationship outcomes cannot be guaranteed.